Q: Tell me something about yourself?
A: If you know me I need not to tell you, if you don't I do not want to tell you.
Q: But still I want to know about you?
A: Ok then meet me and find me out.
Q: I am not interested in you?
A: Thanks, I am also straight.
Q: I meant I do not like you?
A: Can not help. I am what I am.
Q: Hollywood or bollywood?
A: Hollywood movies are good but Hindi songs are unparalleled.
Q: Where you want to settle: in India or abroad?
A: Always in India but I would love to see the world if I get the opportunity.
Q: Are you secular or communal?
A: These are two hard words for me. I am a simple guy who believes in me.
Q: You admire inner beauty or outer one?
A: Inner beauty as all knows that outer one fades away as time progresses.
Q: Do you want to be with your girlfriend or with your mates?
A: Hmm, either way I am happy.
Q: Rafa or Fedex?
A: Federer on court, Rafa on as well as off the court (I like his spanish accent).
Q: A better human being or a celebrity?
A: A better human being.
Q: Amitabh Bachchan or Shahrukh Khan?
A: For me it is always Shahrukh khan.
P.S. The film industry loves SRK but the entire nation respects Mr. AB.
Q: Happiness or satisfaction?
A: Happiness, because it provokes you to do the things with more zeal and enthusiasm and if you are satisfied then you are not interested in your work with that hungriness as you were before.
Q: Morning or twilight?
A: Always morning, but I have not seen rising sun since ages.
Q: What is more painful: If someone hates you or if someone ignores you?
A: Though both are painful but it is more painful when someone hates me.
Q: Cricket or badminton?
A: Playing badminton and watching cricket.
Q: What is the nicest compliment you ever got in your blogs?
A: I do not get many comments in my blogs. People do not think that I write well.
Q: Then why you write?
A: I write for myself not for others.
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Sunday, August 23, 2009
Sach Ka Samna
Hahahaha Interesting………
As I switch on my laptop and play this video a stirring question pops up on the screen.
Would you ever cheat on your wife if she never knows about it?
What would he say: YES or NO? A tough call. But after making his mind he answers the question.
And after that he does not know what to do whether he shall smile or grin or remain quiet. Then waits for Rajeev (the host of the show) to say “Aaiye dekhte hai polygraph test kya kahta hai”. And during that time you can see the faces of his family persons who have come a long way to know about their INNOCENT child. If it comes right then again the same situation: a smile (because he is winning the cash) or to keep his head down (because he is losing respect in front of his wife and family). He even does not know that a little mistake can destroy his childhood friendship (case of Vinod Kambli) , can ruin the husband wife relationship, can dilapidate the kinship between son and father. We can do anything for money. We do not care about what can happen tomorrow for this today’s effect. And for this we simply and completely have to rely upon Polygraph machine, which may not be true at all times.
I was recently watching this chat show and this idea of writing ran into my mind. I could not resist myself to share my feelings. I would have posted this a long ago but you know my laziness always halter me to do the right things. My post is bit gloomy, albeit the weather is very idyllic. However this (weather) is the main reason of my today’s post. I did not take a good sleep today but I do not want to sleep as I do not want to miss the opportunity to relish this awesome weather.
Let me tell you that for this a great drama has been enacted by the politicians at the parliament on 30th July to ban the chat show.
They are saying this as “moral policing”, “misuse” of public interest and bla bla bla…BJP member S S Ahluwalia even said that the programme is unethical and completely against Indian culture.
But why blame Television channels? At the starting of every show they mention: Parts of this program may be for mature audiences. Parental guardians are advised. So if you do not like it, better do not watch it. Who forces you to do that?
Today in India corruption is at its height. If you do not agree with that then there are many shows which run on TV and are more life-threatening than this SACH KA SAMNA, literally ruining our youth. “So for few things in life democracy is not the best policy”.
We make movies like Dev D. I do not know where Indian directors are vacillating. They make movies not for the welfare of society but for their own benefit. And now India decriminalizes gay sex and they give the reason as individual freedom. So according to me that day is not far off when incest will become legal. Oh my god in which genre India is advancing. It is like a bill which is always capricious. I do not know whether Dr. kalam’s vision to make India a developed country till 2020 is accomplished or not but it is for sure that till then India would not be the same as it is now.
For supporting my above mention facts you can look up to the poll of Times Of India:
Is reality show is a mirror to what happens to society? : Yes- 34%, No- 65%, Can not say- 1%. (Dated 10/08/09)
And another one:
Is Bollywood moving away from comfort flicks to darker genre? : Yes- 83%, No- 13%, Can not say- 4%.
So by catching these two polls what you can conceive, I think you are worthy enough to decrypt it.
So first we need to iron out the flaws then only we can start a well tomorrow.
P.S. I am too offspring to write about this issue so please do not mind if someone hurts from this.
I shall take a leave now.
Signing off
Anil Anuragi…..
As I switch on my laptop and play this video a stirring question pops up on the screen.
Would you ever cheat on your wife if she never knows about it?
What would he say: YES or NO? A tough call. But after making his mind he answers the question.
And after that he does not know what to do whether he shall smile or grin or remain quiet. Then waits for Rajeev (the host of the show) to say “Aaiye dekhte hai polygraph test kya kahta hai”. And during that time you can see the faces of his family persons who have come a long way to know about their INNOCENT child. If it comes right then again the same situation: a smile (because he is winning the cash) or to keep his head down (because he is losing respect in front of his wife and family). He even does not know that a little mistake can destroy his childhood friendship (case of Vinod Kambli) , can ruin the husband wife relationship, can dilapidate the kinship between son and father. We can do anything for money. We do not care about what can happen tomorrow for this today’s effect. And for this we simply and completely have to rely upon Polygraph machine, which may not be true at all times.
I was recently watching this chat show and this idea of writing ran into my mind. I could not resist myself to share my feelings. I would have posted this a long ago but you know my laziness always halter me to do the right things. My post is bit gloomy, albeit the weather is very idyllic. However this (weather) is the main reason of my today’s post. I did not take a good sleep today but I do not want to sleep as I do not want to miss the opportunity to relish this awesome weather.
Let me tell you that for this a great drama has been enacted by the politicians at the parliament on 30th July to ban the chat show.
They are saying this as “moral policing”, “misuse” of public interest and bla bla bla…BJP member S S Ahluwalia even said that the programme is unethical and completely against Indian culture.
But why blame Television channels? At the starting of every show they mention: Parts of this program may be for mature audiences. Parental guardians are advised. So if you do not like it, better do not watch it. Who forces you to do that?
Today in India corruption is at its height. If you do not agree with that then there are many shows which run on TV and are more life-threatening than this SACH KA SAMNA, literally ruining our youth. “So for few things in life democracy is not the best policy”.
We make movies like Dev D. I do not know where Indian directors are vacillating. They make movies not for the welfare of society but for their own benefit. And now India decriminalizes gay sex and they give the reason as individual freedom. So according to me that day is not far off when incest will become legal. Oh my god in which genre India is advancing. It is like a bill which is always capricious. I do not know whether Dr. kalam’s vision to make India a developed country till 2020 is accomplished or not but it is for sure that till then India would not be the same as it is now.
For supporting my above mention facts you can look up to the poll of Times Of India:
Is reality show is a mirror to what happens to society? : Yes- 34%, No- 65%, Can not say- 1%. (Dated 10/08/09)
And another one:
Is Bollywood moving away from comfort flicks to darker genre? : Yes- 83%, No- 13%, Can not say- 4%.
So by catching these two polls what you can conceive, I think you are worthy enough to decrypt it.
So first we need to iron out the flaws then only we can start a well tomorrow.
P.S. I am too offspring to write about this issue so please do not mind if someone hurts from this.
I shall take a leave now.
Signing off
Anil Anuragi…..
Monday, August 3, 2009
Frisking
SAD….
A national asset is frisked by cheap continental airlines and we officials are watching it happening. Shame..
Let us not dig a well over the vilification of the great scientist Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam. I am feeling infelicitous because I just like that person because of his simplicity and his rattling work for the nation. I appreciate attitude and humility of the great man. He is not just a former Indian president but a national asset whom we would never want to forget, whom we would never afford to loose, whom we would never want to see disrespected.
But I think that the right thing is done by the US- officials because at least they are aware of 9/11 attack which they would never want to experience it again. Anything can happen at any moment. If we do not learn a lesson from US then that day is not far off when we get another 26/11 like homicidal carnage.
Making a rule for all makes life easier not bad. Everyone should realize this. Be it for traffic rules, college attendance (ha ha ha), medical facilities, frisking or for big R.
Yes, there should be respect for the bigwigs of the country. Because country’s pride and prejudice depend on these great people. But if we make a list of these honored individuals then this list is never going to end because everyone would fight to be a part of this. And as you know there are 28 states (excluding union territories), so 28 chief ministers, 28 governors and 21 chief justices (thanks to Infatuated Admrier). This list does not end here. Because of ministers, ex CM’s and all who you can consider.
Interesting note is that if the man himself never complained about frisking then why to make fuss of all this. And if they have apologize for the same then why we are enacting such drama. The major problem with we people is that sometimes we show chauvinism rather than patriotism. If we respect him so much then why do not we give a personal air craft to our ex president or why do not we ban all the US continental airlines when Air India is there. We people (I am not an exception) just show that how much we respect our nation, how much respect we have for our people but we do not do anything. We just write the things, discuss it and feel satisfied with this.
No one can read off a human being. A terrorist is also a man. I guess all of you have watched the movie SARFAROSH (people who know me knows how many times I have watched this cinema) and no one can forget the role of Gulfam Hashan in that movie. A great ghajalists whom India gives a great respect and in flip side…. we all know it. In the close of the movie there was a great dialogue which I loved the most. When Sonali Bendre asks Amir Khan “ Vishwash nahi hota gulfaam sahab jaise bade kalakaar aisa kar sakte hai”, then amir khan replies “ kalakaar bhi to inshaan hi hote hai, aur inshaan sahi bhi hote hai, galat bhi”. Lagta hai jada ho gaya!!!!
So at last, my question to you: was that right??
A national asset is frisked by cheap continental airlines and we officials are watching it happening. Shame..
Let us not dig a well over the vilification of the great scientist Dr. A. P. J. Abdul Kalam. I am feeling infelicitous because I just like that person because of his simplicity and his rattling work for the nation. I appreciate attitude and humility of the great man. He is not just a former Indian president but a national asset whom we would never want to forget, whom we would never afford to loose, whom we would never want to see disrespected.
But I think that the right thing is done by the US- officials because at least they are aware of 9/11 attack which they would never want to experience it again. Anything can happen at any moment. If we do not learn a lesson from US then that day is not far off when we get another 26/11 like homicidal carnage.
Making a rule for all makes life easier not bad. Everyone should realize this. Be it for traffic rules, college attendance (ha ha ha), medical facilities, frisking or for big R.
Yes, there should be respect for the bigwigs of the country. Because country’s pride and prejudice depend on these great people. But if we make a list of these honored individuals then this list is never going to end because everyone would fight to be a part of this. And as you know there are 28 states (excluding union territories), so 28 chief ministers, 28 governors and 21 chief justices (thanks to Infatuated Admrier). This list does not end here. Because of ministers, ex CM’s and all who you can consider.
Interesting note is that if the man himself never complained about frisking then why to make fuss of all this. And if they have apologize for the same then why we are enacting such drama. The major problem with we people is that sometimes we show chauvinism rather than patriotism. If we respect him so much then why do not we give a personal air craft to our ex president or why do not we ban all the US continental airlines when Air India is there. We people (I am not an exception) just show that how much we respect our nation, how much respect we have for our people but we do not do anything. We just write the things, discuss it and feel satisfied with this.
No one can read off a human being. A terrorist is also a man. I guess all of you have watched the movie SARFAROSH (people who know me knows how many times I have watched this cinema) and no one can forget the role of Gulfam Hashan in that movie. A great ghajalists whom India gives a great respect and in flip side…. we all know it. In the close of the movie there was a great dialogue which I loved the most. When Sonali Bendre asks Amir Khan “ Vishwash nahi hota gulfaam sahab jaise bade kalakaar aisa kar sakte hai”, then amir khan replies “ kalakaar bhi to inshaan hi hote hai, aur inshaan sahi bhi hote hai, galat bhi”. Lagta hai jada ho gaya!!!!
So at last, my question to you: was that right??
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
BUDGET 09
It took me 8 days to understand the issues of budget 09. But still I do not know many terms related to business like fiscal deficit, liquidity, how sensex goes up and falls down,excise duty, what is the actual meaning of GDP (gross domestic product). What happened at the day of announcement of financial budget 09 that caused the sensex to fall down by 869 points?
I am trying to decipher the meaning of “fiscal deficit in 2009-10 is proposed at 6.8% of GDP”.
Many fallacies and many truths. But this is what I got from best of my knowledge.
The first one is that, what is the need of increasing money for NREGA which is not working satisfactorily? They are giving priorities for this scheme because it was started by congress government that is for sure. They increase money but this is for the “village level leaders” as nothing is done at ground level (or I must say at root level, because I have done a survey on NREGA in my NSS camp).
They are investing money on agriculture but are unable to curb the migration of farmers from village to city. The problem is not with these farmers (or villagers) but the rapid modernization of India that encourages these people to travel towards the city. The government should not invest much on agriculture but invest to provide the facility for poor people and farmers to melt off the migration of these people.
It is good to give an impetus to education. Providing fund for IITs and NITs to improve the educational system is a welcoming proposal. But increasing more no. of IITs will surely dilute the ongoing status of these esteemed institutions (but as you know this is not been done by the FM).Also proposing subsidy on interest rate on education loans will help humble means to go for a right and respectable institute.
But nothing is done for India’s most grievous problem that is Terrorists and Maoists attack. Bigwigs of government make many promises at the time of elections but nothing is done by these defective people. They think that these 5 years are the fruitful years of their life.
So all in all there was a mix response from the society. Some improvement and some just wastage of money. But as you know all the five fingers can not be made equal.
So let be happy from what has been done….
I am trying to decipher the meaning of “fiscal deficit in 2009-10 is proposed at 6.8% of GDP”.
Many fallacies and many truths. But this is what I got from best of my knowledge.
The first one is that, what is the need of increasing money for NREGA which is not working satisfactorily? They are giving priorities for this scheme because it was started by congress government that is for sure. They increase money but this is for the “village level leaders” as nothing is done at ground level (or I must say at root level, because I have done a survey on NREGA in my NSS camp).
They are investing money on agriculture but are unable to curb the migration of farmers from village to city. The problem is not with these farmers (or villagers) but the rapid modernization of India that encourages these people to travel towards the city. The government should not invest much on agriculture but invest to provide the facility for poor people and farmers to melt off the migration of these people.
It is good to give an impetus to education. Providing fund for IITs and NITs to improve the educational system is a welcoming proposal. But increasing more no. of IITs will surely dilute the ongoing status of these esteemed institutions (but as you know this is not been done by the FM).Also proposing subsidy on interest rate on education loans will help humble means to go for a right and respectable institute.
But nothing is done for India’s most grievous problem that is Terrorists and Maoists attack. Bigwigs of government make many promises at the time of elections but nothing is done by these defective people. They think that these 5 years are the fruitful years of their life.
So all in all there was a mix response from the society. Some improvement and some just wastage of money. But as you know all the five fingers can not be made equal.
So let be happy from what has been done….
Saturday, July 4, 2009
Wimbledon.....
Recently my interests have turned to Tennis. Thanks to Nadal , Vish,French open, Wimbledon, Amit ji ( I am a regular reader of Amitabh bachchan’s blog) to tune me into tennis court. I am a big fan of cricket but a hardcore fan of Rafa (still I do not know many rules in tennis). Playing badminton is my passion. I am a passionate shuttler (I go for badminton whether it is basic electronics exam “toughest paper we had in 3rd semester” or whether I have a fever of 101 degree), I never gave up playing badminton.
Someone I idolize in tennis like Pete Sampras, Andre Agasi , Steffi Graf, Roger Federer (greatest of all times with 14 grand slam titles equalizing with Pete Sampras) , Leander Paes, William sisters, Maria Sharapova, (not Sania Mirza, her performance and stardom are inversely proportional) and off course Rafael Nadal…
As you see the market in big W is heating. (Or I should say it is at the peak). As only semis and finals are left out.
I am writing this post because I have no work to do today. It feels good today. I am feeling very confident, content, healthy and my mind is working at the high today (generally mind flows to south in midnight) .Reasons I do not know. May be today I woke up at time (generally I wake up at 12 or 1 pm), or may be I had a good sleep in night, or may be I read something related to my subject (generally I do not open books until exams are on the head) or may be there is a mild rain which makes the atmosphere calm.
Sorry, I forget where I was. I lost myself to describe my day..
Oh ya I was in Wimbledon..
William sisters again knock at the final. 29 year Venus destroys Dinara Safin in just 51 minutes while younger one snatches victory from the hand of Elena Dementieva by saving one match point. Let us see whether the older sister is able to defend her championship and is able to score hat trick in Wimbledon.
And whether Andy Murray’s hope to become a first British to get a grand slam after Fred Perry since 1936 is coming true or not. And whether Tennis maestro Fedex will be able to record his name in tennis book to become first tennis player having 15 grand slam titles. He competes in all the four facets of games (Whether it is Wimbledon, French open, Australian open or US open).
He is the undisputed king of grass court. He will be fighting with his old German friend Tommy haas to walk into his 7th Wimbledon finals. Federer should say thanks to Nadal who is not playing this time otherwise who can forget his win over second seeded in last Wimbley.
So let us wait and watch till 5th July whose dream is going to come true….
Someone I idolize in tennis like Pete Sampras, Andre Agasi , Steffi Graf, Roger Federer (greatest of all times with 14 grand slam titles equalizing with Pete Sampras) , Leander Paes, William sisters, Maria Sharapova, (not Sania Mirza, her performance and stardom are inversely proportional) and off course Rafael Nadal…
As you see the market in big W is heating. (Or I should say it is at the peak). As only semis and finals are left out.
I am writing this post because I have no work to do today. It feels good today. I am feeling very confident, content, healthy and my mind is working at the high today (generally mind flows to south in midnight) .Reasons I do not know. May be today I woke up at time (generally I wake up at 12 or 1 pm), or may be I had a good sleep in night, or may be I read something related to my subject (generally I do not open books until exams are on the head) or may be there is a mild rain which makes the atmosphere calm.
Sorry, I forget where I was. I lost myself to describe my day..
Oh ya I was in Wimbledon..
William sisters again knock at the final. 29 year Venus destroys Dinara Safin in just 51 minutes while younger one snatches victory from the hand of Elena Dementieva by saving one match point. Let us see whether the older sister is able to defend her championship and is able to score hat trick in Wimbledon.
And whether Andy Murray’s hope to become a first British to get a grand slam after Fred Perry since 1936 is coming true or not. And whether Tennis maestro Fedex will be able to record his name in tennis book to become first tennis player having 15 grand slam titles. He competes in all the four facets of games (Whether it is Wimbledon, French open, Australian open or US open).
He is the undisputed king of grass court. He will be fighting with his old German friend Tommy haas to walk into his 7th Wimbledon finals. Federer should say thanks to Nadal who is not playing this time otherwise who can forget his win over second seeded in last Wimbley.
So let us wait and watch till 5th July whose dream is going to come true….
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Maja hi kuch aur hai
The poem (kavita) is for all college goer.The title "maja hi kuch aur hai", i have taken it from somewhere else but the contents are mine and are original. If you read it by heart not by mind then you will find it intresting.
Here it goes.............
Orkut ya chatting me short form use karne ka,
Gtalk me upper neeche scroll karke doosron ka status message padhne ka,
Nayi sim lekar dosto ko miss call karne ka,
Aur dost ki girlfriend ko dekh kar usse hi karne ka, maja hi kuch aur hai !!
Exam ke time me movie dekhane ka,
Har exam ke baad sharma dhaba jane ka,
7 me se 3 module chhodkar exam dene jane ka,
Aur exam me acche marks na aane par teacher ko kosne ka, maja hi kuch aur hai !!
8 baje ki class me hamesha late aane ka,
50 minute ki class me 45 minute sone ka,
Class me teacher ko bewakoof banane ka,
Aur teacher ke question poonchane par sir neecha karke muskurane ka, maja hi kuch aur hai !!
Hamesha doosron ki girlfriend ke baare me baat karne ka,
Apne dost ko girlfriend banane ke liye uksaane ka,
Agar nahi bani to use dealing dene ka,
Aur agar ban gayi to usse treat lene ka, maja hi kuch aur hai !!
Train me doosron (did u get it) ke saamne novel ya laptop kholne ka,
Chalti train se bahar jhankhne ka,
Koi doosra jhakhe to use mana karne ka,
Aur station aane ke baad chart me us coach ki saari seats ko check karne ka(sayad koi mil jaye), maja hi kuch aur hai !!
Here it goes.............
Orkut ya chatting me short form use karne ka,
Gtalk me upper neeche scroll karke doosron ka status message padhne ka,
Nayi sim lekar dosto ko miss call karne ka,
Aur dost ki girlfriend ko dekh kar usse hi karne ka, maja hi kuch aur hai !!
Exam ke time me movie dekhane ka,
Har exam ke baad sharma dhaba jane ka,
7 me se 3 module chhodkar exam dene jane ka,
Aur exam me acche marks na aane par teacher ko kosne ka, maja hi kuch aur hai !!
8 baje ki class me hamesha late aane ka,
50 minute ki class me 45 minute sone ka,
Class me teacher ko bewakoof banane ka,
Aur teacher ke question poonchane par sir neecha karke muskurane ka, maja hi kuch aur hai !!
Hamesha doosron ki girlfriend ke baare me baat karne ka,
Apne dost ko girlfriend banane ke liye uksaane ka,
Agar nahi bani to use dealing dene ka,
Aur agar ban gayi to usse treat lene ka, maja hi kuch aur hai !!
Train me doosron (did u get it) ke saamne novel ya laptop kholne ka,
Chalti train se bahar jhankhne ka,
Koi doosra jhakhe to use mana karne ka,
Aur station aane ke baad chart me us coach ki saari seats ko check karne ka(sayad koi mil jaye), maja hi kuch aur hai !!
Saturday, June 20, 2009
My observation of we Indians.....
The blog which I am going to post is about what I observe within the people of my country. I am not criticizing the Indian people (no offense, mind it).
I have not travelled so far but what I have is this. (A general view not specific to anyone)
We Indians are weak
1. In clapping: This is very simple to act as I think, nothing but just have to put hands together for someone’s benefit. It boosts up the confidence of the person whom we are listening and also makes him to feel better that someone is attending(because everyone yawns in a meeting, no one listens to the speaker)and now is able to deliver the teaching(any matter) aid in more congruous way .
2. In asking question: Sometimes it becomes increasingly difficult for we people because we do not have the habit of raising questions. The problem may be that sometimes we waffle, sometimes language problems, sometimes we think of that the question may be very sappy which would make everybody laugh, sometimes we even think that it is very easy that we are able to lick it by our own which is not as simple as thinking.
3. In giving positive feedbacks: It is not easy to give feedback (positive) to the other person. The reason behind this may be that we are so emotionally attached that we do not want to hurt the sentiments of other even if we know that it is for his/her benefits only. Sometimes we feel deficient(in knowledge) that will the person listen to us??. And Sometimes we have the attitude that WHY shall we give the feedback at all?? and due to which we mould our true friend to an awry path.
4. In babbling with unacquainted person (initiating convo with girls are exceptions): We are not habitual of amalgamating with unknown personality (which may be of no use in some cases) but for our upbeat we sometimes have to open our mouth. It intensifies our learning. But we are not so much comfy in chaffering with the unfamiliar person may be because of we have the “preconceive notion” (this is a very calumnious disease that we, each and everyone have) about other that the individual is far better or sometimes unsound than us.
We are strong
1. In criticizing: we are very prompt in criticizing others rather than imaging at ourselves. We hardly applause someone’s better doing but we criticize at every moment. Even if Sachin (greatest of all times in cricket) does not play well in an inning we do not just let him go but drag him also in the benighted mud. The reason may be that it feels juster because we try to console ourselves by criticizing others.
2. In giving advices: we are very good in this job. Some people are so much keen to offer advices (even if it is of no use) that we have to proffer it whether it is effective or unfit for that situation. I have a funny story regarding this. May be I will write it in some other post.
3. On commenting others: this is a really bad habit that we have in ourselves. We bluntly speak to any matter whether it is of someone’s religion, relationship, may be of family related issues even of someone’s eating or drinking. We do not make our mind to think before speaking and we just speak. After all who we are to comment on someone’s religion if we do not know the basics of that religion, and why to comment on someone’s outfits. And when we pass from that same phase then we come to realize that what bloomer we did in the past.
There are some other points but that may lengthen the count. So that binds up the discussion.
I have not travelled so far but what I have is this. (A general view not specific to anyone)
We Indians are weak
1. In clapping: This is very simple to act as I think, nothing but just have to put hands together for someone’s benefit. It boosts up the confidence of the person whom we are listening and also makes him to feel better that someone is attending(because everyone yawns in a meeting, no one listens to the speaker)and now is able to deliver the teaching(any matter) aid in more congruous way .
2. In asking question: Sometimes it becomes increasingly difficult for we people because we do not have the habit of raising questions. The problem may be that sometimes we waffle, sometimes language problems, sometimes we think of that the question may be very sappy which would make everybody laugh, sometimes we even think that it is very easy that we are able to lick it by our own which is not as simple as thinking.
3. In giving positive feedbacks: It is not easy to give feedback (positive) to the other person. The reason behind this may be that we are so emotionally attached that we do not want to hurt the sentiments of other even if we know that it is for his/her benefits only. Sometimes we feel deficient(in knowledge) that will the person listen to us??. And Sometimes we have the attitude that WHY shall we give the feedback at all?? and due to which we mould our true friend to an awry path.
4. In babbling with unacquainted person (initiating convo with girls are exceptions): We are not habitual of amalgamating with unknown personality (which may be of no use in some cases) but for our upbeat we sometimes have to open our mouth. It intensifies our learning. But we are not so much comfy in chaffering with the unfamiliar person may be because of we have the “preconceive notion” (this is a very calumnious disease that we, each and everyone have) about other that the individual is far better or sometimes unsound than us.
We are strong
1. In criticizing: we are very prompt in criticizing others rather than imaging at ourselves. We hardly applause someone’s better doing but we criticize at every moment. Even if Sachin (greatest of all times in cricket) does not play well in an inning we do not just let him go but drag him also in the benighted mud. The reason may be that it feels juster because we try to console ourselves by criticizing others.
2. In giving advices: we are very good in this job. Some people are so much keen to offer advices (even if it is of no use) that we have to proffer it whether it is effective or unfit for that situation. I have a funny story regarding this. May be I will write it in some other post.
3. On commenting others: this is a really bad habit that we have in ourselves. We bluntly speak to any matter whether it is of someone’s religion, relationship, may be of family related issues even of someone’s eating or drinking. We do not make our mind to think before speaking and we just speak. After all who we are to comment on someone’s religion if we do not know the basics of that religion, and why to comment on someone’s outfits. And when we pass from that same phase then we come to realize that what bloomer we did in the past.
There are some other points but that may lengthen the count. So that binds up the discussion.
Sunday, March 29, 2009
@ BIT : Where it starts, where it ends ?????
On 23rd July 2006 I stepped into a beautiful place called BIT (everyone curses BIT but why). Firstly I was charmed watching those greenish grass, bending trees, lovely air, appealing dawns and heart stealing eves but at the same time frightened thinking that how this place would be, how seniors would behave (because before coming into bit I had heard a lot about ragging), as I had no friends and I have to spend my 4 splendid years here so I have to get acquainted with all these things.
I was very emotional, shy, non ostentatious and aesthetic guy.
Emotional because of I didn’t make fun of anyone because I thought if someone got disturbed by this then this is going to trouble me.
Shy because of…………………
And I didn’t work upon those things which didn’t work upon me.
Aesthetic: this is the thing that bit took away from me.
Now semester comes and ends without knowing how much I learned the things and hoping that next time it would be better but it also ends up on the same note. At the end of the day writing in my diary but I hardly managed to write 5 or 6 lines as nothing happens as such to be remembered (those boring lecturers, some “helpful” advices by professors and hopeless food in mess except some beautiful faces that come across while roaming at IC) .
Now it has been three years. I have gained valuable things and lost some. .
I earned beautiful friend circle (they embellish my life at each and every moment) in which u can find any type of guy like non prehensile, pragmatic, hardworking, curious, philosophical and some “politicians” (do not look other way round).
Friends are all I have but hey I am still searching out for………………..
But in spite of pros and cons I am satisfied with my journey at bit till now.
Hoping for the rest to be better.
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