Monday, August 23, 2010

And finally I lost my virginity!!

The day was 21st August, at around 9:15 pm, I lost my virginity.
I am no more a virgin now. Yes I had first official drink of my life on the grand success of one of my close friend getting into NTPC. Many many congratulations to him. May he achieve what he deserves in his life.

He is leaving in a short time but our memories will always bind us together.

I was asleep when his result was declared. When I heard about that I was just wow. Within a minute we planned for an orgy followed by night out. We are new in Kolkata so didnt have much idea about restaurant and hang out places for nights. We phoned our colleagues for the information and finally landed in Bar B-Q in Part Street.

After settling in, I thought whether should I make my foray from this place or should I wait for some time more. After much juggling I thought this is the good time to move on. We finished dinner at around 9:45 PM.
After the party we planned for the night out but we were feeling a bit unsafe in unknown place and also had cash and valuable items with us.

We all four walked in deserted road for an hour at around 11:30 PM. We saw some unwanted/wanted elements in mean time. After that we visited our office where we work and then headed for the night show. When we reached at Bioscope (Movie hall) the main door was about to close. We felt a bit annoyed because we were in full swing. we headed for the home and were finally landed in our flat at around 12:45 AM.

We had an awesome night.

Signing Off
Anil Anuragi.

Thursday, August 12, 2010

Ethical Values

What makes a son to argue with his father, what cooks a guy to bid adieu to his girlfriend forever, what encourages an engineer to become a dread terrorist, what prepares an amiable friend to turn into an awful foe, what made two successful millionaire brother to work in two different ways,what caused a tech savvy to cheat on IT giant and what induced a nuclear scientist to sell his own creativity??

I think there is only one answer. They all were lacking in ethics. I should not use the term ‘Lacking’, it was because that their ethical values didn’t match.

World is progressing in a fast pace so the demand of the new generation’s children are also changing in accordance with that. Sometimes there is a mismatch between child’s demand and father’s principle which does not allow him to accept what he is asking for. So here starts contend.

In start a guy starts arranging everything what his girl asks for but as the real love butterflies inside them, what makes duo to take their own separate part. Sometimes it is because of family problem but most of the item it is because their ethics are not same. She wants something from the guy but he wants something else from her (Dont get me wrong here. Hehehe). And from here the relation starts dilapidating.

From the above two discussions what I am trying to make is that when there is conflict in one another’s ethics, it always results serious issues.
But never compromise with your values because these values define you as an individual in this world.

But you know these values cannot be taught in schools, or cannot be inherited from forefathers. One imbibes these vales as he grows, respective of the environment where he lives, the kind of friends he makes during the process (His/her life’s journey), the kind of books he reads, the kind of movies he (Read he or she) watches. These all influences ones ethics.

So the point is that if you are not comfortable with someone’s company better leave in initial stages rather than waiting to turn it into brutal stage.

There are different types of people. So choose your company accordingly like spoiled, geek, serious, funny etc. There is no harm if you are spoiled but there is a problem if you choose your friends serious ones.

And finally one last line that sums up the entire post,
“If people do not like you it is because they are not like you”.

Take care
Have a nice day ahead! ;)

Signing off
Anil Anuragi