Bluntly Speaking

How does she manage with four boys (or rather four boyfriends)??
And then discussion starts and it keeps going.

This is the most otiose illness. We are very fluent in speaking and the very idea of about what we are speaking is of no use or even unknown or sometimes may be harmful.

I see people who have the habit of maledicting other people, their relationship, communities, their religions, cricket players, big stars and each and everything that come across as this becomes a habit for them. Their purpose ain’t to harm anyone but simply to make themselves happy or to drive the crowd.

People always comment on other’s religion. Why Burqa is necessary for women in Islam? Why Jihad is so important (may be good or bad, but you are not the one to decide that)? Who we are to justify what is correct and what is incorrect if we do not know the very meaning of Islam (same for other religion)?
Like sea, river, pond and lake all have different names but the truth is that all contain water. The same holds true for the religions. They are different by names only but one thing that is common is that all contain Truth. (So let us don’t play with the purity of the religions)

Words do not stop here. We speak inadvertently about anything. We make comment on rich and poor. Everybody has his own way of living. How can two people have the same value if they are born differently? Every one is born individual. And every one has to play his role in his life. That is why God has created this beautiful thing called Human. There is a disparity among different strata of family. So obviously their culture, customs, their dressing style, their etiquette, and their behavior would be different. So let them enjoy their own life in their ways.

The same but funny thing happens in cricket also. When someone like Harbhajan Singh is playing and is not able to hit comfortably then those watching the match start another cricket. There may be the case that they do not know that this is an one day or a test, may not even know that he is a bowler or a batsman, the status of the match, about pitch condition and who is on the bowling side. But they have to speak because they can not remain quiet. And this pesters the person sitting beside him.

And if you try to pull them off then their reply will be “We are independent people in independent country. We can say and do anything we want”. This is true but please do not make such comments at the cost of others. This may dissipate someone’s relationship or even destroy it.

So get out of this futile illness before you destroy someone’s relationship or livings.

Signing off
Anil Anuragi….